The (Pre)Marriage Monologue

Well, it was a shocker for me too. I always reiterated the fact that I am not a natural writer, but it is the emotions that drive me to the blogs. This is the perfect example that accentuated it. I actually typed all this in a chat window, when I was feeling unusually irked. And guess what, he said this after I finished my small speech:

g: hmm

flawless english

and nice speech

really moving

i am touched

and i am gonna try to get a grab a handle

thats a promise

Now that I have bosted enough, here it is:


I hate it that you procrastinate things so much, with no particular reason whatsoever
You could have easily done booking of the tickets earlier itself
I agree that you didn’t have the complete list
I know
but trust me, I have travelled enough
and I know, it’s always to book well in advance
You would never do that; coz u had to wait for the confirmed list
and now u have lost the primary option and have to look out for replacements and backups in the last minute
and thats only the tip of the iceberg
there have been umpteen things
that are yet not done
the appointment with the dentist
the servicing of the bike
hopefully by tomorrow finally that would happen
i really feel bad at times
i know, the time constraints
but see, we manage to go out so much on weekends
it wouldnt take much time to do it. u know
but u never really did
i am to be blamed too....i have never pestered u well enough to make u do it
see, everything will NOT be okay if u do it at the last minute
there are things that u need to foresee and act
try to take precautions
u have this firm belief that things will get ok
that u can make things ok
may be, to a certain extent, u r right
but what i want to ask is, why go to such lengths?
why cant u think preventive?
try to be responsible, a little towards urself too
and i know what u would be thinking now
'i will do it once i am married...right now this will suffice'
that is okay....but imagine this: after marriage i ask u to do it every day
wouldnt u get the feeling that 'heck, i used to be so free, now she is making me do all these pain-in-the-ass' stuff
this is PRECISELY the reason why guys complain about losing freedom after marriage
but in reality, they never were free...they were just plain lazy
now u would be thinking why am telling all this to u and i bet u r losing ur patience
i just had to tell u this right now
may be i would not be able to put across these things as effectively as i wanted to
if i had waited for the next time
so, right now, i just made use of the irkness that i had and came up with this
this is the way i look at things that u do...be it right or wrong
u might have ur own explanations and reasonings
i respect them
but u see, it was important that i let u know how i feel about certain things
thats all.....